43 thoughts on “The gay & str8 porn star in Tommy Defendi this 2015 (tips @ Adam & Gossip Gay)

  1. Released 3-3-15
    Type: MP4
    Duration: 00:04:49
    Resolution: 1280×720
    File Size: 93 MB
    Not yet sure if that information is correct yet, but it seems odd that they’d release a 5 minute video! So far, the female is merely credited as Ash. God! The name reminds me of Corbin Fisher’s resident she-beast, Ashley. LOL I don’t think this is her, however.
    As for Tommy, I much prefer the 2008 version…seems like his dick got harder back then, too. But anyway, the whole beard craze going on now disturbs me. I wish he’d get rid of it.

  2. I keep hearing this rumour….that he only dates chics. I wonder if it’s true. Or, did this actually come from his own mouth in an interview?

  3. He has said a couple of times when asked about his sexuality something to the effect that he considers himself bisexual but he only dates women. It is in my opinion a thinly veiled way of saying he is straight. He has always lived with women. A friend of a friend who lives in Chicago, which is Tommy’s home base, has rented him a couple of times and recommends him highly. He says that from what he could tell Tommy was pretty straight.

  4. I was never a big fan, so don’t care who he’s fucking. I do like his chest hair but he doesn’t look good with a beard, at least not that much, maybe if he scaled it back some.

  5. He’s never been a good performer in gay films. i.e. he rarely kisses or is any way passionate.

  6. I don’t know..but sometimes these porn stars claim straight to enhance their marketablity? I thought I remember an article about he and his boyfriend on a red carpet [porn related event]

  7. I don’t know..but sometimes these porn stars claim straight to enhance their marketablity? I thought I remember an article about he and his boyfriend on a red carpet [porn related event]

  8. I’m not sure exactly what is comical about that. It is a close friend of someone who is a good friend of mine. I have stayed at his house once while visiting Chicago so I suppose I could have said “an acquaintance of mine” but he did not tell me directly about renting Tommy. The comment came to me from my friend who knew I would know who he was referring to. I don’t make up stuff. I may sometimes exaggerate but I do not lie.

  9. Usually, the default marketability orientation setting these days is bisexual. It works for gay guys wanting to appear more straight and for straight guys wanting to appear more gay. Given all the hate that G4P performers get for calling themselves straight, they are more likely to say bisexual than straight. And the only gay guy that tries to market himself as straight is someone in denial.

  10. I forgot to comment on your statement about Tommy appearing somewhere with his “boyfriend”. He has never appeared anywhere where he publicly referred to a male companion as his boyfriend. Friend, perhaps. I have followed Tommy since his days at College Dudes. I was convinced from the beginning that he was in fact gay. It is only after other information about him came to light that I changed my mind.

  11. Strange that he’s only done a small video like this considering he did a full-on penetration/bj scene all those years ago.

  12. I think that was a blogger’s delusion that because Tommy had a gay friend he hung out with outside of work that must mean they must also be having sex.

  13. I can certainly see why you were so convinced that Tommy is gay. He seems so very gay! Gaydar goes off! If he is, in fact, straight, he must be that one in a thousand straight guys who are obviously effeminate and exhibiting stereotypically gay mannerisms.
    You have the benefit of inside information, tho I’m not calling you a liar. I will take your information and add it to mine. I just have your information to balance on the scales of my own preconceived notions of porn stars sexuality, etc. And I have my gaydar. LOL OTOH, his typical limp dick when fucking guys in the ass is telling.

  14. I’ve never really cared for him either. He’s never really done it for me, never been able to masturbate to any of his scenes (LOL) and now i know why. NEXT!

  15. Definitely not CF’s Ashley. This one almost looks pretty. CF Ashley looks a little bit like one of the guys with tits.

  16. Nevertheless tho. I dint necessarily mind him doing this because he has lied to anyone about anything and he seems like a nice guys. Ive heard nothing negative about him what so ever.
    He dose not turn me on personally but I wish him the best luck and yea I would indeed watch his straight porn stuff. Ive seen it before and it looks better than his gay work.

  17. The fact of the matter is, if you fuck men and only date women you are a the literal definition of a whore. That us gays are so critical of the gay men who perform in porn is a little hypocritical. I wish defendi the all the best in the world, but to fuck guys only on camera shows that you are simply mercenary.

  18. He does “scream” gay, but I have no idea what he does in his personal life. I think he’s probably wasting his time being “straight” though…

  19. Hate the beard. He was much hotter with the five o’clock shadow and a clean shaved head. I don’t know what’s up with Defendi and Keller sporting these mountain man beards; it makes them look twenty years older.

  20. I do agree that when I’ve seen him interviewed he does come across as gayish and that’s what I based my initial sense that he was gay. But, as I said, other information seemed to indicate otherwise. Someone on another site commented that this gayish, almost nellyish (forgive me but it fits) persona was something he did only while in a gay siuation. It is the mark of a borderline sociopathic personality to change one’s demeanor based on one’s audience. They need to be liked. Then he sent me a straight, short video with a girl involved and voilà macho man appeared. It was striking. It reminded me of a straight friend of mine who was the same way. When he was around some of my more effeminate gay friends, he would become a bit more effeminate himself, almost as a way of fitting in or making the other guys feel more comfortable.
    And you are right about my information. Even I don’t treat it as hard evidence, more like another indicator. That’s why I used the term “friend of a friend”. Not only did I not get the information from him directly, I don’t know him well enough to judge his objectivity. So like you it is simply another bit of information to file away. However, given the info I do have nothing has yet pointed to anything than his basic straightness, so far.

  21. Well, in Tommy’s scene with Lisa Lee, sorry can’t think off-hand the name of the studio, it was a psuedo-dating theme and there were lots of talking, they even when out to dinner. Anyway, his gayish mannerisms were exactly the same with this girl and in this video than he is in anything else I’ve seen him do that’s gay. shrugs Moreover, he actually “came out” in the straight scene as bisexual and talked about having sex with guys. It was very strange for a straight scene.

  22. Adding to the gay/straight convo, I’ve seen him out in WeHo and he acts quite gay, but at the same time was pawing a woman in his gay/girl group of friends, so it seems he probably likes it both ways. Performance-wise, there’s that scene he did with the Bang Bros site “Can He Score?” where he could barely get hard enough to fuck the woman he was with, and they kind of made fun of him for it — but who knows. It’d be great to see him pounding a woman hard for once, but, hey, if he mainly likes eatin’ pussy and getting dominated by chicks, maybe one day we’ll see it. But all in all, in no version of the definition does it seem he’s “straight.”

  23. true, nowdays gay porn stars who has straight life claiming as bisexual to fuck guys on and off camera only for money.

  24. Thanks for jogging my memory and saving me from digging. Tommy’s scene with Lisa Lee that I referenced was Bang Bros “Can He Score”, where they mostly recruit brand new male talent, but sometimes also use regulars…Tommy was regular to porn, but gay porn, not straight.
    I don’t remember the erection issues. But, to be fair, he has erection issues all the time topping boys. Personally, I think he should bottom and lose the facial hair. Beards and all that shit is getting played out and tired. The bushy ones are disgusting!

  25. Clearly, Tommy took a page from Jesse Santana’s book. For the longest, Jesse said he was gay and then a couple of years ago he decided he was bisexual but that could have been to get more clients for his escorting. Same goes for Zack Randall. Gay one moment, bi the next. Maybe Tommy’s straight-for-pay.

  26. I’d have more time for him if he was. Why can’t we have some guys who actually care bear to even be TOUCHED by another man in gay porn!

  27. LOL That’s wishful thinking on your part. “Straight for pay”? and people think “gay for pay” is silly. lololol The straight porn market and the billions and billions of straight (and bi) men out there aren’t in need of a “straight for pay” gay porn actor to shoot for them, they really aren’t. 🙂
    Jesse is bi, and I believe it. He fucks with trannies in his personal life. Zack randall is probably an honest bisexual as well, if not gay for pay. He has a rock hard erection in his straight scenes compared to his squishy gay porn penis. He even fucks girls on his website that he currently updates regularly.
    And Tommy was always gay for pay, that’s been said by co-stars and studio producers, and not in a marketing sense.

  28. i’ve only seen a bangrbros scene with zack randall but love to see more of his straight side, do you with which studios has he filmed?? thanks!

  29. I got my hands on it. As I suspected, it’s very limited. He basically just eats her out and then she leaves…scene over. I don’t even think he got nekked or took his dick out.

  30. Yeah, as I said earlier, Tommy’s first straight scene was with Lisa Lee for a site called “Can He Score?”, which is owned and operated by Bang Bros. The scene is entitled, “Lisa and the ‘Straight?’ Guy”, October 9, 2009. He says he’s 20 and later in the video they talk about the fact he has sex with guys, too. Of course, the director and Lisa Lee kinda make a joke out of it, doubting that he’s really into women. Too, if you watch the video, everyone and their neighbor can pick up on his gay mannerisms, etc.
    http://www.bangbros.com/t2/intro?s=bd6122

  31. Y’all are a bunch of player haters. Leave my Tommy alone. None of you assholes are handsome enough to have had a successful.porn career. To.my is the shit ! ! !

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